The weight, the love, the lineage — and the choice

Hi Reader.

Mother’s Day doesn’t land one way.

For many of us, it opens a doorway — into gratitude, grief, guilt, rage, reverence, or, most likely, all of it at once.

Whether you are a mother, are mothering others, have chosen not to mother, are grieving your mother, or still trying to find her inside yourself — I want to offer you a different perspective on motherhood and mothering.

This week, I’ve been writing about the places we carry the motherline most:

  • In our relationships with our mothers
  • In the way we raise our daughters and our sons
  • In the roles we take on inside sisterhood
  • In the pressure to hold it all, fix it all, and not pass it on

These are not light topics. They are intergenerational ones.
They are explorations that hurt when we unpack them.
They reveal truths so many of us would rather keep hidden.

But, like pain itself, they are also portals — to deeper sovereignty, to joy that doesn’t require permission, and to the kind of choice from our emerging authentic Self that unhooks us from guilt, shame, and obligation.

🎧 Free Audio: Women Awakening

If you know it’s time to live differently — to stop repeating what you inherited — these complementary Women Awakening audio conversations with Louise LeBrun offer a powerful place to begin.


🔥 Mothers Awakening = Cultural Disruption

There is so much to say about the power of mothers awakening — it is one of the most potent forces of transformation we have access to.

It is not easy to step onto a different platform than the one we inherited. And yet, it is essential if we are to transmute the intergenerational lies we’ve been living under — so our children can live from the essence of their untapped potential.

Below, I’m sharing some of my recent writings, paid offerings, and spaces of support — all designed to help you live from the truth your body carries.

Not just for your freedom — but for theirs.


🪶Reflections from the field

The Kind of Mother I Choose to Be

Not the one I was modeled. Not the one culture rewards. The one who refuses to pass on what I came here to end.

A Motherhood Manifesto

For the mothers who refuse to disappear under the weight of the conventional narrative of who they were told they should be.

My Dear Declan Series

Love letters to my son -- from his first birthday...


🧭 Resources to help you go deeper

If you know this work is more than a concept — and you’re ready to live it differently — here are a few trusted resources to take you deeper.

These aren’t tools to fix you. They’re invitations to remember who you are beneath the roles, the expectations, and the lineage you’ve been carrying.

📘 Book: New Paradigm, New World

For the woman who no longer wants to cope or manage her life — but is ready to awaken to the power of choosing it, fully awake and on her own terms.

Buy the book

📘 Book: When the Horse Dies, Get off & Stop Dragging it Around!

For the woman who’s done having the same old conversations the same old way — and is ready to bring truth, meaning, and real change into how she lives and relates.

Buy the book

📘 Book: Guardians of the Vision: Parenting for Potential

For the woman who’s done having the same old conversations the same old way — and is ready to bring truth, meaning, and real change into how she lives and relates.

Buy the book

🪷Oracle Cards: The Art of Expansion

Something fun for the woman ready to pause, breathe, and reconnect with herself — one powerful truth at a time.

Buy the cards

🌿Guided Reflections: Awakening the Body

For the mother ready to reconnect with her body as a source of truth, not just responsibility — and to soften into herself, from the inside out.

Buy the guided reflection

BTW, these are resources I use myself and always recommend for my clients. I’m not paid to share them — I just trust them wholeheartedly, and I know how powerful they can be.


🔮 Live containers & intensives

May 16–19Healing the Motherline (3-day intensive)
By invitation only. For women ready to meet what they've been carrying intergenerationally — and they are ready to integrate it.

Emerging Identity — coming soon
A six-month process for women who’ve completed the 5-day Decloaking intensive. This is for those ready to live from choice, not pattern.

Women & Sexuality — in development
A deep dive into sovereignty, pleasure, and reclaiming the body in a world that taught us to give it away.

Manifesting a Meaningful Life — coming early September
She’s on the horizon. I’ll let you know when she arrives. If you know you'll be there, please reserve your spot now. I cannot guarantee a spot!

I’m not writing launch emails or sales pages for any of these. If you feel the pull to be there, email me.


✋ New Here?

If you’re new and feeling the pull — even if you don’t know why — that’s enough.

If you want what’s real, even though you’re skeptical, you’re exactly the kind of woman I’d love to connect with.

👉 Book a no-pressure, no-pitch coaching call with me. A gift. For you.

And definitely start with the free Decloaking audio series — and when it hits… buy the full set.

This is where the rest of your life begins:

👉 Download the first free Decloaking audio series


With deep RIG and reverence,
Stela

P.S. However this day lands in your system — I see you. Thank you for being part of this ongoing conversation of emergence, truth, and the reclamation of Self.

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