Hi Reader.
This week's newsletter can feel a bit heavy if you don't breathe -- so before we delve in, remember the power intentionally breathing ... (the theme of the last WEL-Systems monthly newsletter).
The last few days of my life have been devoted to holding space. Space for a woman who was in the midst of domestic violence contemplating leaving.
Now, if you know a bit about me, you know that domestic violence is a theme I am familiar with.
I have come to conclude, from personal experience, that we can use our courage to leave or we can use that same amount of courage to endure.
I know what it takes to leave, and I know what it takes to endure. Been there, done that. Strongly encourage finding a new way to live ...
We all know someone who is experiencing some version of violence in their home -- and it is within a spectrum (shunning, silencing, shaming all count).
Perhaps, you are that someone and you are ready to stop pretending.
Perhaps you know a loved one and you want to help but are unsure how.
Whatever your case may be, I invite you to consider that when you choose to use your courage to create a different reality for yourself, the path opens up for you to walk it (and not a nanosecond before).
In our case, we were fortunate. The woman chose safety. And when she did, the whole community mobilized to support her in her choice -- in real time.
How freaking incredible is that?!
It has been such a powerful experience, full of all the waves...
My role in this experience was simply to hold the space for evolution to unfurl exactly as it should. In other words, I was fully supportive and present, and I let go of the outcome ...
From where I stand, that is the essence of allyship rooted in love -- supporting and letting go.
How we relate to one another here is not about commiserating in the trauma, but about being rooted in authenticity. Each woman checking in with her own impulses first, then engaging as others awaken ...
Sometimes, in the depths of despair, something beautiful emerges ... and life unfurls. I feel blessed to be part of this community!
A community who knows: When we give from a full cup, we have so much more to give ...
I captured my experience of this moment in a 7-minute video —you're welcome to witness it.
If you prefer to read the blog, here you go.
Other resources you might find meaningful
Related Classic WEL-Systems Blogs
Violence and Silence
The burden of violence in the home
… always, the children pay the price…
Curious about my thoughts on domestic violence?
I've written about it here. Choose which blog you want to delve into — they’re all interconnected, anyway…
Reflections from the field
Ready to get your mind blown about the power of your body being on your side? I invite you to listen, really listen, to this incredible podcast between Louise LeBrun and Anne Berube.
What I’m creating space for...
✅ I wrapped up my third yearlong container! That was fun, and it's time for something different ...
✅Coming up next May 16 - 19, we will delve into the mother-daughter exploration. We will explore the potential of this relationship, the binds, how it continues to run the show of our lives out of our awareness, along with how we free ourselves from the grip of its illusions. If you know you want this conversation, now is the time to sign up.
✅ Interested in the emerging identity exploration? This will be a six month process, focused on what it takes to choose choice-point up. Starting mid-June.
✅The women and sexuality exploration has been knocking at my door for quite some time. Over three days together, we will delve into what it means to be a sexual being, pleasure and its impact in our life, and how to reclaim our sexuality in a world that demands we give it away.
BTW, I am not writing any email series or sales pages about any of these -- if you feel the pull to be there, Email me to talk and reserve your spot. | over Zoom | $1499 + tax
✅ Also, Manifesting a Meaningful Life is on the horizon. When she’s ready, I’ll let you know. Intending for end of summer.
If you’re new and feeling the pull but you don’t know why...
Perhaps you're ready for more. If you want what's real and you're curious ... even though skeptical -- you're exactly who I'd love to connect with.
With respect ...