Reader,
Some of us are here to create a new reality.
(Scary AF, I know)
The problem is that most of us spend years trying to make peace with the one we were handed.
But no matter how hard we try, we cannot escape this fact.
When we try, we find ourselves in pain. We find ourselves in the illusion that someone else holds the answers. And our body inevitably screams.
I know this one well.
I tried to make peace with all kinds of paths that were already predetermined. But at every turn I was disappointed, disheartened, and quite frankly, pissed off.
The truth is that there is no container in the status quo world big enough for me. I could fight that. I could brace against it. I could hate it with all my energy. And that would create one reality.
Another reality is that I embrace it. And, as those of you who know me know, I am in love with my life.
If you're a trailblazer (even undercover), you know what I'm talking about.
Many of us didn’t set out to become the creators of a new reality. We simply realized the one we were born into didn’t serve us well. And the sooner we embrace that fully, the more our life begins to feel like it actually belongs to us.
It's not easy, that's for sure. Especially with the pressures we put on ourselves. But the more we hold on to what is or what we think should be, the more miserable we find ourselves.
For me, it has become blatantly evident: the more I notice that I live an abundant Life, the more abundance shows up in my life. Funny how that works.
While you may feel this in your bones, you may not know what's next. This is what keeps most women captive to a reality that they find no joy in.
But if you're in my world, I invite you to consider noticing something important: You get to choose.
Over the next couple of weeks I’m opening a conversation about this — about fear, choice, and the realities we create when we begin to listen differently.
Sometimes these situations show up in our life in order for us to notice something powerful:
I AM more.
And when we begin to notice that, something else becomes possible.
We begin to see how fear, cultural conditioning, and internalized expectations quietly yet persistently influence the choices we make.
Is there anywhere in your life right now that you are realizing you no longer fit in to the container of the space you find yourself in?
Hit reply and let me know; I read and respond to every email.
This Month’s Invitation
This month's workshop is exploring Women and Fear: Choosing Beyond Limitation, a self-directed audio series that explores how fear shapes the choices women make — and what becomes possible when we begin thinking of fear differently.
When you purchase this, you’ll also be invited to the live workshop Fear Is Information where you will discover why fear often shows up at the exact moment your life is ready to evolve — and how to listen to it without letting it run your life.
In this workshop, we’ll explore:
- Why fear shows up when your life is ready for change. You’ll see why fear often appears precisely when the choices that once made sense in your life no longer feel true.
- The biggest misunderstanding about fear. Most women treat fear as a stop sign. We’ll explore why fear may actually be information about something you don’t yet know, and how that's a good thing.
- How to listen to fear without letting it run your life. You’ll leave with a simple way to recognize when fear is narrowing your perception — and how to return to the place where you can consciously choose.
Thursday March 26 | 11 AM–1 PM | Zoom | Included with the audio.
If you already own the series and would like to join the workshop, just reply and I’ll invite you as my guest.
PS — Fear is usually treated as a signal to stop. But what if fear is actually information about something you don’t yet know?
If that question resonates, start here. In 9 days I’ll host a live workshop where we’ll unpack what you discover together. You don't have to listen to the whole thing, just get started.